Secret Love for Online Dating
I am a fan of people. Nothing turns me on more than people and how they act. It's an addiction that has dried itself out on the rungs of bars and eateries here in Baltimore and has taken me online for me to get my fix. Oh yeah...I am registered with like 7 online dating services. Now, I don't have pictures up there, and I've never filled out anything.I never respond to anything and have never emailed anyone or do I ever hope to talk to any of these people. So stop right there before you attack me. I do this for a weird voyeur window shopping entertainment. It's like watching a car wreck. I read them everyday, religiously . They are my National Enquirer, it is my Reality TV, this is my mind numbing activity. I am thinking about putting together a list of some of the stuff I read, as sadly, much like the bar and eat scene, these biographical description never seem to stray far from each other. Apparently every girl in the world just wants a rich cowboy, who likes Sex and the City, and is willing to except someone for all their flaws. Here are some examples of shit that you come across...
The "right" guy has to make me laugh... There should be attraction/chemistry and common interests but then a few opposite interests so that we can experience new things. Caring, honesty, trust and understanding to crazy good time families are very high on my priority list for a guy...Enjoying fun nights out on the town, but also low key nights watching movies...I'm not looking for a serious relationship, but whatever happens, happens, right?
Basically this just tells me that you are from the suburbs and you have been fucked by different guys more times than God has made a river. This is so terribly non-specific and non-thought out that it's no wonder you are on here looking to get your next fix of man love. And what exactly are "crazy good time families"?
Bars & Clubs: Power Plant Live used to be the big hoppin place, but now its more of Fell's Point, Canton and Federal Hill. I greatly enjoy meeting new people in these places, you can find some interesting and very knowledgable characters.
"I'm so enthrawled by booze hounds and guys who can't afford the BMW's that there daddies paid the down payments on." This sort of description of a "hot spots to hang out"is also very common. They list the places that they have gone twice and left at midnight with the rest of their black pant brigade. These girls are easy to spot because they travel in herds to cut down on the fun resistance.
Someone who is dedicated to his career, financial obligations and family, above all other things. Intelligence is important to me - someone who can challenge my mind. I like to have heated debates and intense conversations. Someone who is assertive and straight-forward...knows what they want out of life (or even out of an everyday situation) and has the confidence to make it happen. If they care about their appearance and physical health, all the better. It would be nice to meet someone who likes to play sports and work out too. And I cannot forget to say that they should be caring, romantic and affectionate - not afraid to show a "soft side" every so often.
These are often my favorites. These are the girls that know exactly what they want and aren't afraid to tell the truth. The other girls just want someone who won't beat them and hopefully will not piss on the toilet seat and want anal sex on a daily basis. This girl though, this girl says it all, "You better be rich, at least some day, you better be hot or else I can't get off, you better be smart so I can show you off to my friends without having to make excuses that you just aren't a pretty boy, and you better be willing to allow me to use sex as a weapon in order to have leverage in a relationship." These girls are the best ones because at least they don't sell themselves short with their man ambitions.
My favorite city is Venice, Italy. I plan to go back someday, and just spend a week or so wandering through the mysterious, lonely canals. I believe that the best wasy to see a city is to get yourself lost in the middle, and explore your way out...
I.e. I was there once for a week on a tour with either my parents or school and this is the only real thing I have to say that's even remotely impressive about my life.
I am new to the Maryland area. I just moved here a few months ago. I am looking to meet new people, and possibly that special someone. I am a very outgoing person and I am always up for trying something new. A few of the things that I enjoy doing on my spare time include spending time with family and friends, going to bars/nightclubs (occasionaly), the beach, working out at the gym, traveling/sightseeing, listening to music, watching movies, and spending time with my dog.
These are also very popular because apparently the jobless and friendless love to move to different places on a whim. The thing that gets me about most of these posts are the bracket comments that follow up most of the (almost) enticing comments about either sexual or daring social habits. You see it there with "(occasionally)" well hers is spelled wrong, but either way, this is to let us know that her days of being a slam pig for frat guys are over and she now really really really enjoys ordering house white zinf or a Merlot that she allows the waiter to choose. Either that or she had an alcoholic boy friend that used to flush her head in the toilet.
I would like to meet someone that is romantic, honest, loving, and trust-worthy.
Whenever I see a description of the guy these girls want to meet without an inclusion of anything tangible, only subjective attributes, I immediately assume that her bio should read, "Hi, I'm going to totally become a soccer mom and get a fat ass. I don't care what you look like or what you do because I'm the boss of everything and I want a pet for a boyfriend."
More later....these were fun